How to Tell If a Girl Is Horny: 15 Obvious Signs

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When it comes to sexual arousal, men tend to be straightforward. In fact, you’ll know exactly if your male partner is horny because most of them are pretty vocal about it. On the other hand, women are harder to read. Knowing if she’s in the mood for some fun can be very tricky, especially if you don’t have enough experience.

But you don’t have to wonder if the woman of your desire is horny for much longer. All you need to do is check for these telltale signs during your next encounter. So, without further ado, it’s time to learn how to tell if a girl is horny.

How to Tell If a Girl Is Horny: 15 Signs

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Contrary to media portrayals of horny women, which usually entails ripped clothing and copious amounts of dirty talk, the signs are much more subtle. If you want to become a master of recognizing female horniness, you’ll have to pay attention to her body language and tone of voice.

1. She Checks You Out

Sexually-aroused females tend to watch the person of their attraction intently. No matter what trivial activity you do, like eating or playing a video game, she’ll follow and watch your every move. She’ll often focus her gaze on a certain part of your body, like your arms or crotch. That’s because she’s thrilled to be around you and is looking for a way to escalate the situation.

Keep an eye out for her body language during this time. If she giggles, blushes, smirks or bites her lip constantly, she might be down for some bedroom action. Her pupils may also get dilated when checking you out because she’s aroused by your presence. So now might be the perfect time to make a move and see if she really wants to get physical with you.

2. She’ll Initiate Physical Contact

Have you ever wondered why some women always brush against you or hold onto you for no particular reason? Or maybe they’ll go the extra mile and run their hand down your back, stroke your face, pat your hip, or even squeeze your leg.

Some women may also grab or hug you from behind. When confronted, they’ll usually comment that they can’t keep their hands off you or something along those lines.

Women often do that to show their interest and to encourage intimacy. However, be very careful when trying to touch them yourself in response. Sometimes, you might accidentally mistake a friendly brush or stroke for a sexual hint. As a result, never touch another person without being 100% sure that they are into you.

3. She’ll Focus on Your Lips

If a woman who usually looks into your eyes shifts her focus and now stares at your mouth, then she might be sexually aroused. Be on the lookout for additional signs like smirking, smiling, licking of lips, and swallowing.

Those signals can all point toward a hidden desire, kissing. If you’re lucky, she may even admit that she can’t wait any longer, giving you the perfect opportunity to take it to the next level.

4. She’s Flirty Around You

Let’s assume that you’ve already established a neutral or friendly relationship with a particular woman. The two of you enjoy basic activities like hanging out and talking casually once in a while. Then, for no apparent reason, you notice that she starts to get flirty and tease you.

Flirting is a very obvious sign that a girl is horny and wants your undivided attention. You can confirm this suspicion by checking how she acts around other guys. Does she single you out and only flirt with you?

If yes, then you should reciprocate and get into her game. With a bit of luck, the situation might quickly escalate, and you’ll soon find yourself romancing this person.

5. She Flaunts Her Best Assets

Generally speaking, guys don’t spend too much time preparing their outfits, as a simple shirt, a pair of pants, and sneakers will do just fine. In contrast, females, especially if aroused, will present themselves in their most attractive form.

In other words, they’ll wear clothing that emphasizes their best physical assets. That means tight dresses, push-up bras, and crop tops.

Remember that revealing clothing is not always indicative of a girl’s horniness. However, if she does her best to get into your visual field in order for you to check her out, then there’s a big chance that she’s indeed sexually attracted to you.

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6. She Keeps Conversations Kinky

As noted earlier, teasing is a big part of being horny and attracting potential partners. If you notice that she’s leaving suggestive remarks in the middle of your conversations or asking many intimate questions, then she might be horny. While women will use subtle and indirect signals, they can also get straight to the point.

Is she making sexual innuendos during a casual conversation? Perhaps she just mentioned her past sexual encounters or her favorite sex position. Or maybe she asked about your sexual experience. All of those are intimate topics that girls don’t normally talk about with other guys.

But be extremely careful when engaging in such conversations, as you could ruin the moment by saying the wrong things. Try to follow her lead and avoid hanging on to a sexual topic for too long if you notice that she’s not into it.

7. She Compliments You

Whether you are dressed casually or extremely elegantly, a horny girl will waste no time saying how good you look. She’ll praise and admire your clothing, body, and style. In order to boost your confidence and get you in the mood, she might also compare you to other guys, saying how much sexier you are. Don’t forget to compliment her back to keep the momentum going.

8. She Changes Her Voice

Even though she won’t go through a Darth Vader-like voice transformation, you will notice a change in her tone. That’s because her breathing will get shallower than usual, which adds a sexy, breathy undertone to her voice. You’ll have to pay close attention if you want to notice these subtle changes. But once you do, you can confidently make your move.

9. She Walks and Dances in a Sexy Way

Few women actually sway their hips when walking all the time. Typically, this behavior is related to a woman’s horniness and her intention to attract males. The same can be said for dancing. While women wiggle a bit when they dance, those who are horny will get closer to you and even grind against you.

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10. She Seems Uneasy

Female arousal is strongly tied to various biological mechanisms. As a result, a horny woman will have an increased heart rate and tend to breathe heavily. That will make her feel a bit uneasy, hence the word hot, which is often used to describe sexual arousal.

How can you recognize this uneasiness? Just take a moment and think about her behavior during the date. A horny woman will play with her hair, constantly shift in her seat, or keep going to the ladies’ room to freshen up. But avoid teasing her about it; otherwise, she might feel embarrassed and lose interest.

11. She Invites You to Her Place

Some horny women want to close the deal as soon as possible. Therefore, they will either invite you to her place or invite herself to yours. However, don’t expect a straightforward invitation like you would want. Instead, she will try to come up with subtle ways and offer plenty of excuses.

A woman that wants an invite will ask where you live, if you live alone, or even what kind of furniture you own. It might sound funny, but taking advantage of those subtle hints will get you one step closer to a romantic encounter.

12. She Wants More of You

When a girl feels horny around you, she’ll never get sick of you. In fact, she will do everything in her power to keep you around for as long as possible. She’ll either prevent you from catching the last bus home or insist that you spend the night at her place.

Some women will immediately make plans and ask for a second date. And, if you can’t show up for whatever reason, she’ll quickly suggest a different day. Simply put, no matter how much time the two of you spend together, she’ll always want more.

13. She Gives You a Nickname

Women tend to give nicknames to guys that are close to them and with whom they feel comfortable around. It insinuates that she considers you part of her inner circle and trusts you enough. In fact, some women do this to boost friendliness, particularly if the nickname has a positive connotation.

So, if a girl has given you a cute or funny nickname, then she is at least interested in you. However, that by itself doesn’t mean she’s necessarily horny. So make sure to check for other signs, too, such as her body language.

14. She Always Laughs at Your Jokes

Let’s be honest, it’s almost impossible to make good jokes all the time. Every once in a while, you’ll fail and come up with a joke that’s so bad that only a few of your friends laugh with you (or at you). Yet, there’s that one girl that laughs regardless of what kind of jokes you make and how funny they are.

Although she might just have a unique sense of humor, more often than not, there’s another meaning hidden behind her laughter. She’s not reacting positively just because your jokes are funny; she laughs because you made the joke, and she is already sexually aroused by your presence. Basically, she wants to let you know that she enjoys your company.

15. She Smells Different

Perhaps you already noticed this, but a girl’s skin smells differently when she’s horny, and there’s a reason behind it. Women release pheromones during arousal with the purpose of attracting potential sexual partners. These pheromones are a byproduct of female hormones, which rush through their bodies when they are sexually excited.

Unfortunately, it can be quite hard to notice this smell, mainly due to the perfumes that might cover it. But if you have a sharp nose, you’ll be able to use this knowledge to your advantage and easily figure out whether the girl in front of you is horny or not.

Carrie Nelson
Carrie Nelson wears many hats. She’s an avid quilter, author as well as a social media guru. Her love for quilting is evident in her books on the subject and she hopes to pass on her color balance and design skills to her readers. When not quilting or writing, you’ll find her knee-deep in home improvement projects.